I am 35 and a half.

Today is my half birthday.


I love my mom for always throwing us half birthday parties :).


So, I am 35 and a half.


I say I am cool with getting older. I even say I like it.


Part of me really does believe this.


And I really do believe each birthday is a privilege.


I preach this.


On my actual birthday I celebrate big and will gladly tell people my age.


I don’t hide it on facebook profiles or random surveys.


I roll my eyes when people won’t share their age.


But then I noticed I am not as “cool” as I thought I am around age.


I notice how I think I am but how I am not really living it.


I notice how when a friend who I know is younger than me asks me how old I am, I cringe, yes I tell them of course, but I cringe and I tell them, “Oh, I am old, I am 35” with this wah-wah-almost-longing-for-32 energy.


I notice how with each month passing I subtly resist 36.


How I am not fully open to it.


Or if I am open to it, it is with condition.


Like, for example, I tell myself, well as long as I am making this amount of money by the time I am 36 then it’ll be okay that I am 36.


Or like maybe if I am pregnant again by the time I am 36 then I can swallow it.


And so now what? Now that I know this about myself what will I do?


I will be the person I think that I am. I am 35 and a freaking half and so damn proud.


And not because of anything I accomplished or not.


Just because I am that age and that is awesome just in it of itself.


It might be a little wonky to lean into to this partial belief, but I will and in no time I will be fully there, rocking 36 and then 37 and then 72 and then 93.


I am so done being kind of okay ish with my age.


Wanna come over tonight for half of a birthday cake in a half decorated kitchen to celebrate?


Love you mom <3.

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